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Shop strap-ons & harnesses — complete sets, pegging kits & harness-compatible dildos. Same-day Sydney dispatch, 100% discreet packaging. Free shipping over $99.

Complete Sets & Harnesses — Australian Owned & Operated

Strap-Ons for every couple

Australia's best range of strap-ons — complete harness-and-dildo sets, pegging kits, comfortable underwear-style harnesses and harness-compatible dildos in every size. Fast discreet delivery across Sydney and Australia.

All+
Bodies & couples
4.8
Average rating
24hr
Sydney dispatch
100%
Discreet packaging
Plain discreet packaging
Body-safe materials only
Free shipping over $99
30-day returns
Secure checkout
Australian owned

Pair it with

01

Pick your harness style

Strappy jock-style harnesses are adjustable and secure. Underwear-style harnesses feel more natural and stay put. Both work — it's personal preference.

02

Check the O-ring

The O-ring size determines which dildos fit your harness. Most sets include interchangeable rings — any flared-base dildo that fits the ring works.

03

Start smaller than you think

For pegging beginners, a slim 10-12cm dildo is plenty. Comfort and confidence first — you can always size up once you've found your rhythm.

04

Lube generously

Whoever's receiving, use plenty of water-based lube and go slow. The wearer sets the pace only after the receiver gives the green light.

4.8
★★★★★
160+ verified reviews
"Bought a complete set after we'd talked about it for ages. The harness is comfortable, quality is great, and the plain packaging made the whole thing stress-free." — J.&S., Sydney ✓ Verified buyers
2,400+ Australians
shop here every month

Frequently asked questions

Should I buy a complete set or separate harness and dildo?

Complete sets are the easy option — harness, dildo and O-rings matched and ready to go. Buying separately gives more choice; just check the dildo base fits your harness's O-ring size.

We're new to pegging — where do we start?

A beginner pegging kit with a slim dildo, plus plenty of water-based lube and patience. Start with fingers or a small anal toy first, communicate constantly, and let the receiver control depth and pace.

Will the harness fit me?

Most harnesses adjust across a wide size range — check the waist/hip measurements on each product page. Underwear-style harnesses come in standard clothing sizes including plus sizes.

How is my order packaged?

Completely plain box, sender listed as STM Pty Ltd. No branding on the outside. Bank statement shows a generic reference only.

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