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Shop spreader bars — adjustable ankle & wrist spreader bars with padded cuffs. Position held effortlessly, same-day Sydney dispatch, discreet packaging. Free shipping over $99.

Position, Held — Australian Owned & Operated

Spreader Bars no closing that

Australia's best range of spreader bars — adjustable ankle and wrist bars with padded cuffs, from compact beginner bars to full-length steel. One simple piece of kit that holds the position so nobody has to. Fast discreet delivery across Sydney and Australia.

Adjust+
Length settings
4.8
Average rating
24hr
Sydney dispatch
100%
Discreet packaging
Plain discreet packaging
Body-safe materials
Free shipping over $99
30-day returns
Secure checkout
Australian owned

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01

One bar, total control

A spreader bar locks ankles or wrists a fixed distance apart — the position holds itself with zero effort from either of you. Maximum effect from the simplest hardware in bondage.

02

Adjustable beats fixed

Bodies and positions vary — an adjustable-length bar adapts to both, and lets you widen the stance gradually. Fixed bars are cheaper but you're stuck with one setting.

03

Ankles first, lying down

Start with an ankle bar while lying down — standing spread positions challenge balance fast. Padded cuffs are worth every dollar for comfort on the ankle bones.

04

Build the combo

Many bars have centre and end D-rings — clip in wrist cuffs for a 3-point spread, or connect to an under-bed system for full restraint geometry.

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100+ verified reviews
"The adjustable ankle bar with padded cuffs was the missing piece — we clip it into our under-bed straps and suddenly every position from the last two years feels new again." — M.W., Sydney ✓ Verified buyer
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Frequently asked questions

What is a spreader bar actually for?

Holding legs or arms apart at a set width so the position can't be closed — vulnerability, access and control in one piece of hardware, with no knots, straps or effort required to maintain it.

What's the best beginner setup?

An adjustable ankle bar with padded cuffs, used lying down, starting at the narrowest width. Standing positions test balance quickly — work up to them once you know how the bar feels.

Can a spreader bar connect to other gear?

Yes — most quality bars carry D-rings at the ends and centre, so wrist cuffs, under-bed straps and hogtie hubs clip straight in for combined positions.

How is my order packaged?

Completely plain box, sender listed as STM Pty Ltd. No branding on the outside. Bank statement shows a generic reference only.

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